Introduction
Lighting candles can create a peaceful, romantic, or spiritual vibe. But did you know there’s a superstition that says: “Don’t light three candles at once—it’s bad luck”?
This old belief still shows up at dinner tables, ceremonies, and even weddings. So where did it come from? And is there any truth to it today?
Let’s explore the meaning, origin, cultural and religious views, and a personal perspective on lighting three candles at once.
What Does the Superstition Say?
Many believe that lighting three candles at the same time, especially from one match, brings:
- Bad luck
- Illness or death
- Breakups or romantic troubles
- Unwanted spiritual energy
Often, people say the third candle is the “unlucky one”—especially if three people are involved.
Where Did This Belief Come From?
The superstition likely began during World War I.
The War Theory
It’s said that:
- The first candle catches the sniper’s eye.
- The second candle gives time to aim.
- The third candle is the one who gets shot.
This tragic battlefield story turned into a civilian superstition over time, especially in Europe. Now it shows up in some households, especially among older generations.
Cultural Beliefs Around the World
Western Countries
- In places like Sweden, the UK, and parts of Eastern Europe, three candles may be associated with bad omens or funerals.
- In modern times, most people either ignore it or treat it as a quirky tradition.
Eastern Cultures
- In Japan, India, and China, candles are often used in religious or spiritual ceremonies, but the number three doesn’t carry the same warning.
- Instead, focus is placed on balance, colors, and purpose, not on superstition.
Religious Views on Lighting Three Candles
Christianity
- Candles are deeply symbolic in Christianity, often used during Advent, Easter, or prayers.
- Lighting three candles may even represent the Holy Trinity.
- There is no belief in bad luck related to candle count.
Islam
- In Islam, candles are not part of formal worship, but may be used at home or in cultural events.
- There is no Hadith or Quranic verse that says lighting three candles is bad luck.
- Islam discourages superstitions. Actions should be guided by faith, not fear of omens.
So in Islam, lighting three candles at once is not considered bad luck.
Modern and Scientific Views
Today, most people view candle superstitions as myths or old beliefs. There’s no scientific reason to fear lighting three candles.
The real issue? Fire safety.
Tips:
- Don’t place candles near curtains, books, or papers.
- Use sturdy holders.
- Keep children and pets away from open flames.
- Don’t leave candles unattended.
Personal Experience
I remember once during a small dinner party at home, I lit three candles from the same match—without thinking about it. An older guest jokingly said, “Oh no! Three candles from one flame? That’s bad luck!” Everyone laughed, but for a moment, I hesitated.
That night went perfectly fine. No accidents. No arguments. In fact, it became a running joke. Since then, I’ve lit three candles several times—at birthdays, quiet evenings, even during power outages—and nothing bad has ever happened.
Honestly, that experience helped me realize how much our fears are shaped by old beliefs, not reality. Now, I still enjoy candles, but I don’t let superstitions dictate how I use them.
So, Should You Worry?
Not really. Here’s a breakdown:
- Historically: It comes from war-time fears.
- Culturally: Some European traditions mention it, but most ignore it now.
- Religiously: No major faith, including Islam, teaches that it brings bad luck.
- Practically: It’s just about safety and common sense.
Conclusion
Is it bad luck to light three candles at once?
Not at all.
Whether you’re setting a romantic dinner or praying quietly at home, don’t stress about the number of candles. Focus instead on the intention behind the light—peace, love, or remembrance.
Let go of the myths, and let the glow of the candles bring warmth to your space—not fear to your heart.
